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Our Family Is Really Struggling, But I Don't Know How To Tell Anyone

Posted On: Jan 17, 2020   |   Posted By: Scary Mommy

Our Family Is Really Struggling, But I Don't Know How To Tell Anyone

My husband has a chronic health condition. He picked it up last June, and despite the good chance it would go away, it just... didn't. He's always in pain. Some days it's manageable. Other days it leaves him gasping and makes him irritable. He yells at me, at the dogs, at the kids. You can't blame him. His nerves are on fire, and there's nothing to fix it - not lying down, not pain pills, not anything.
Because of his pain, and my full-time stay-at-home job, plus homeschooling, our house is generally we-can't-have-visitors destroyed. It makes us both feel guilty. Between the pain and the messy house, we become more isolated. Money's really tight too, which leads to bad arguments. Like so many families, we struggle. We struggle hard.
Add some sons whose ADHD is becoming progressively worse, a kid moving swiftly into tweenhood , your standard parental battles over TV time and media use and whose turn it is to let out the dogs, and we struggle even harder.
Our friends have no idea.
They don't know, of course,...

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