• We Can't Forget That Infertility Affects ‘Dad' Too

    24 days ago - By Scary Mommy

    One day recently, my husband came home from work and was cranky. Ordinary, run-of-the-mill questions were met with snippy answers. I followed my usual pattern of responses when this happens:
    First, I heave lots of big sighs and demonstrate emphatic hand gestures, arms flying around like a drunk windmill.
    I ask helpful questions like, “Why are you being so snappy? Do you think my day was perfect?”
    Then I remember that part of premarital counseling where we learned, Don't be an ass when your spouse is having a hard time. I then take a step back, suck in a deep breath, sit on my windmill...
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